She was 8.5 months pregnant at that time. His ways will live on through them. Sincerely,Carol kramer. The family requests that memorials be contributions to the California Historical Society, 678 Mission Street, San Francisco, 94105, or The Nick Traina Foundation, P.O. That was very nice. Suzie Orrill. She covered it well and it was only after her death that it became apparent that she was bipolar. My husband and I moved to southern California and I never saw John again. He was kind to me, and to my sons, Carlo and Edoardo. Steele publishes several books every year, and works on at least 5 writing projects at a time. Hello Ms. Danielle Steel To plant trees in memory, please visit the, In loving memory of our cousin from the La Volpe family, I was Mr. John Traina's fitness trainer in 93/ 94. The well-heeled man-about-town was a highly regarded figure in San Francisco society, which reeled at the news of his death. Catherine Bigelow is a freelance reporter-columnist-blogger who specializes in coverage about boldfaced names and A-List affairs. Cant wait for your book to come out April 5th, Ive asked my other son to buy it for my birthday. Grief researchers say holding that missing funeral service, even a year or more later, can still help us heal. While I thought John Traina would live forever, I didnt know that John had died, I am so sorry for your loss, How lucky you all were to have had such a wonderful time together. W&P Porter bowl review: A container that makes office HOKA dropped a brand new version of their most popular shoe, Your Privacy Choices (Opt Out of Sale/Targeted Ads). I was 23, fresh out of college in Washington State, and working for American President Lines. In a six-month project with The Chronicle's investigative team, she recently revealed the misleading practices of a San Francisco fashion charity that took donations from wealthy philanthropists but donated little to the stated cause of helping the developmentally disabled. Ever! I looked up and there was John, dazzlingly handsome. The world, and surely our world, will be a sadder place without him. JOSEPH TRAINA OBITUARY. I made life-long friends there, and my first husband, Capt. And we were married in June. The perpetually tanned and relaxed-looking gentleman exuded a Cary Grant-like star quality. Or I want advice and will attempt the same thing. I thought so highly of Mr. Traina. Kind, elegant, unforgettable, Our sincerest condolences to the entire Traina family. I cant tell you how much I lvoed the book and then I pulled up this link. Hed had some heart problems in recent years, but managed them responsibly, and continued living a great life. 4:34 pm, Judith A. SeifriedMarch 30, 2011 RIP Mr. John Traina. John Traina passed away at age 79 years old on April 1, 1999, and was buried at Calverton National Cemetery Section 26 Site 718 210 Princeton Boulevard - Rt 25, in Calverton, New York. She began her newspaper career at The San Francisco Chronicle in 1995 as an editorial assistant to the features department's editor and columnists. It was not intended as an epitaph at the time, of course, but now it has become a posthumous sentiment shared by family and friends: Dede Wilsey: After a blind date where they both lied about their age (she said she was older; he, younger), Wilsey recalled thinking as she wrote Traina's name in her address book, "He's the best-looking man I've ever met. He left quickly and elegantly, leaving our entire family to mourn him, bereft to have lost such a lovely man. You wrote about him so beautifully. Me??? http://www.tj.org. So we will have to go on, keep our chins up, remember him with loving smilesand having had him in our lives, he blessed us all. We had five more together, Samantha, Victoria, Vanessa, Maxx, and Zara. Love, Lorraine. Having only recently been informed of John Trainas passing via a chance reading of Stanford Magazine that published alumni news I must say I was quite shocked. I just love the story of his life and the life he shared with DS and his entire family. And we shared 17 wonderful years. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. We lost the head of our family last year. 7:43 pm, John TrainaAugust 2, 2013 This year will mark the 25 anniversary oft mothers death. He was married to each for 17 years. I did not know Mr. Traina personally but knew of him as being one of the last Men of Elegance, a reminder of times long gone. Passed away in San Francisco. God Bless Dede, Danelle and all his children. John Traina - S.F. I was hoping to hear from you to see if you could email me and let me know how do I survive this. zara alexandra traina. Wikifamouspeople has ranked John Traina as of the popular celebs list. Wishing Peace for You and Your Family. One doesnt hear that from ex-wives very often and it was touching to read. Samantha Clarke. And after 17 years, with great sadness, we parted ways, but we remained very close. The memories will forever live in my heart. I don't remember any scene in any place where he wasn't anything but composure and elegance personified," Trevor Traina said. Our deepest sympathies during your time of loss If you would like to make a comment, please fill out the form below. Although he resided primarily in San Francisco, he also had a home in Oakville, where he grew grapes and made red wine, often given as gifts. Chronicle, Sunday February 6 just 5 days before his Celebration of Life at the S.F. He sounded good. We shared Christmas with him, afterwards he went to Mexico with friends, and in mid January, he was to have chemo, to deal with the leukemia. John was all about living life, without regrets, without tears, without fears. One of the things I loved about him was that he wanted more children, and so did I. Despite varied pursuits and shattered relationships, she is shy, and rarely faces the media. John sounded as wonderful as the perfect men in some of your novels Its so nice that you were able to share a life and build a family with such an endearing man. A cordial and affectionate greeting, Sorry Mrs. Steel, admired the little I had read about in his book on Nick, his patience cooperation with you, love makes all things possible. Use Next and Previous buttons to navigate, In the days that follow the shuffling off of our mortal coil, rare is the person whose oral epitaph does not include an aside beginning with the word "but.". Maritime Museun, Friday February 11. Gaelle was sooo real! Last Known Residence . i worked for him in oakville for two years ..couldnt have been nicer and fair ,Im very sorry for your loss a good man, areally fine human being. Funeral services will be held privately. I can only imagine what a depth-charge this is to your family and children. I pick up the phone to call but no one answers. He enjoyed a long and respected career in shipping (American President Lines, Grace Lines, Prudential Lines, Delta Lines) and was among the first to start cruises into China. Death: Immediate Family: Son of Thomas Traina and Carmella Husband of Private and Private Father of Private Brother of Private; Private and Private . John A. Traina, Jr. (Sept. 26, 1931, to Feb. 1, 2011) passed away last Tuesday in San Francisco. Did you ever write a book about your lives together in Napa?? 4:11 pm, Judith BertinatoNovember 1, 2019 They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel. Eventually, he and his wife became my friends, and invited me to some dinner parties, with my assorted not very exciting boyfriends at the time. John was a great conversationalist, very well-read chap, and we discussed philosophy and politics. But his dedication to his family proved there was no man more diplomatic.". For those who knew Mr. Traina, his death came as a blow. Since then, she has worked for the Sunday Style and Datebook sections, covering gala night openings and writing trend pieces. I am glad I was able to reunite with Todd if only for a couple of hours. Dear Danielle As we left, John placed a hotel sticker on the compact, 'Now you'll always remember our lunch.' And then there was a big reception at my home, with music and laughter and people, which is exactly what John wanted. 7:10 am, afaf sherbinyFebruary 1, 2013 Thank you for writing Nickys story, as it may help another family understand what to look for early in a childs life, and perhaps be able to get help sooner and save a life. 10:14 am, Jan FisherMarch 15, 2011 May God bless you and yours. He died on November 19, 2010 at 75 years old. Love to all . Ways to honor John Traina's life and legacy. He suffered from heart trouble in recent years and had been diagnosed with leukemia recently. Passed away in San Francisco. THERESA TRAINA OBITUARY. We had drinks together a time or twobut always just as good friends. One or more of her novels appear on the New York Times Bestseller list consecutively since 1981, which is a Guinness world record in itself. I am sorry for your loss With heartfelt condolences to you and your family. (Juan 5:28,29) Just as when Nick died, you are all in my thoughts and I pray that you find comfort in all those special memories you have of your former husband, fellow parent and dear friend. The philanthropist and renowned Faberg collector was a fixture of San Francisco society married first to Dede Buchanan, an ambassador's daughter, and later to author . Your blog was beautifully written and is a magnificent testimonial to the father of your children, and also to a man who was also your dear friend. The greatest sadness, other than losing him, is that our children are still very young, in their early 20s, much too young to lose a parent, and a man like John is a lot to lose, as a parent, loved one, or friend. She became a features reporter in 1999 and was assigned the society column in 2004. A memorial service will be held at The Maritime Museum, 900 Beach Street, San Francisco, 94109, on Friday, 11 February, at 2:00pm. TRAINA, John G., 95, of Blairsville, Ga., formerly of Tampa, Fla., passed away on Monday, Nov. 17, 2003 in the Union General Hospital following an extended illness. John sounded like a wonderful person. John and his wife looked like movie stars to me, and led a golden, elegant life. John and I went to Lowell Hight School together. She had met Danny Zugelder while interviewing a prisoner, whom she married in the prison canteen in 1975. Here, we see: He had moved back into my house during chemo, so he would be more comfortable and could be near to our children. 11:00 am, Yoko YanariMay 19, 2011 26 September 1931 1 February 2011. He sounds so exciting, every day was a new adventure to him. Really and truly touched by your amazing story, its like a fairytale story itself . November 19, 2010 . But first let's book a reservation to Stockholm. Mansion on Washing St.,which you can see in the Frank Sinatra movie,Pal Joey 1957 (DVD 2005). He enjoyed a long and respected career in shipping (American President Lines, Grace Lines, Prudential Lines, Delta Lines) and was among the first to start cruises into China. What impressed me was the fact that he continued to share holidays with his children in spite of being divorced. ", Matthew Kelly (longtime friend, business partner): "John and I had dinner most Mondays up in the country. Its powerfully rich and precious like the pictures on the back of my moms books and her dresses. I am so sorry for his familywhat a terrible loss. Please accept my sympathy for your loss. Catherine left The Chronicle in 2007 but continues to write features for the paper and a twice-weekly society column. He was so amazed by them and excited to watch their pursuits in life. And he called me and invited me out. May I express my deepest condolences to John's large and wonderful family. She said what a mistake she made and we have never looked back. Mr. Traina was well-loved for his elan, his conversation and the ease at which he put people in social gatherings. I took a photo of John with his two sons before we went to lunch in Yountville. But, what a life he lived! Early life [ edit] Train was born on the Upper East Side of Manhattan to Helen Coster Gerard and Arthur Train. You are so lucky to have been a big part of his life. We both think that your professional life is astounding and your private life is to be admired. The best poems for funerals, memorial services., and cards. Much of who I am revolves around his views of life and obligation to community. We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time. I just found out about John Trainas passing, living in Arizona now. And it says a lot about a man to be mourned by many children and two wives. With love, We found 15 records for John Traina in MO, NY and 8 other states. Jos Ropero, I am so sorry for your loss. Another shows John, then Jackie on the porch in 1938. To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one. I am so sorry for your loss. And he was the grandfather of Johnny and Delphina Traina, Daisy Traina, and Sebastian and Isabel Seidenberg. My parents and his parents were friends and they would invite the Trainas to our summer home at Clear Lake. John Pell Coster Train (May 25, 1928 - August 13, 2022) was an American investment advisor and writer. Death date: 0 August, 1978, Tuesday This memorial website was created in memory of Rocco Traina, 66, born on November 7, 1911 and passed away on August 0, 1978. I am so sorry to hear of your ex-husbands passing. Love always. And he was the grandfather of Johnny and Delphina Traina, Daisy Traina, and Sebastian and Isabel Seidenberg. 1:00 am, Samantha ClarkeApril 28, 2015 John must have been a remarkable person and his passing leaves a large emptiness in the world. I knew John Traina since age 2, Grant Grammar School, Lowell High School and thereafter through the years. "He was the man who everyone liked. She is the bestselling living author and one of the best-selling fiction author of all time, with over 800 million copies sold. It was a love fest. He began the Pearl Cruises, the first Western cruise line to sail to China. He was married to each for 17 years. John Traina is a St. Louis soccer icon who will always remain an idol for an entire generation of players. Her first husband was steamship executive John Traina, whom she met in her hometown of. He was 79. makes me feel that I know him too. Traina [], [] buenos amigos de Steele. Login or Sign-up to show all important data, death records and obituaries absolutely for free! Juz found out about ds website n been reading abt u wen I suddenly came across dis sad news.Im so spring for ur loss.I loved ol d dedications u wrot abt him Im ur books..Im sori abt nick too. I always admired the fact too that John never flirted with me, nor showed any interest in me (not always the case with married men). Chre Danielle,je me sens si proche de vous et je partage votre peine davoir perdu John que vous aimez tant,ayant moi aussi perdu mes deux poux,le premier,bi-polaire,sest suicid.Mais je voudrais vous parler de NickSa photo sur le livre ma caus un grand choc,il en manait douceur ,force et fragilit,jai tout lu en une nuit,il ma fait rire,trembler,pleurer et depuis Nicky est dans mon coeur pour toujours.jai prs de soixante-dix et je mne moi aussi un terrible combat contre cette implacable maladie qui a saccag ma vie,ma propre bi-polarit,je le mne seule,hlas!Je vous admire pour cet immense amour que vous lui avez donn,et lamour est plus fort que la mort,un jour nous les retrouverons et nous serons tous ensemble dans la paix.Je prie pour lui et pour vous.Affectueusement,Michle. John Traina, philanthropist, vintner and world-renowned Faberg collector, died Tuesday in San Francisco of heart disease. But to me it was like losing a parent because we lived with her. Post was not sent - check your email addresses! She was Bipolar Manic Depressed Like your son,I did everything I could to help her doctors,medicines putting her in rehab in hospitals and anything I could.Saddly on May 5 2010 I lost my baby she was only 18 years old to an accidental overdose.Now I am trying to go on without her it is not easy. All of our children were with him, and sadly I was in Paris, but spoke to him the night before, when he still assured me he was fine. Ike a great marriage, what a family, I hope you find happy ness you deserve it! Holidays bring up a lot of memories. John was wearing a Union Officers uniform and looked incredibly dashing. I have always thought of Todd and Trevor as my boys. 8:51 am, Debbie BanahanMarch 22, 2017 I just read about this. Jack was born on January 2, 1935 in the Coney Island section of Brooklyn NY, and remained proud of his Brooklyn heritage. I was planning to visit him with Judy again, when I read the shoking news by way of a one day He was such a fun man and always, always, put his children first. I did not know Mr. Traina personally but I knew about his style and elegance; his great collections and him being one of the last few remaining Gentlemen of the Old World, sadly disappearing. What a wonderful person you are danielle . To you and your family, my deepest sympathy and my thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time. It broke my heart to leave them, but I had to move on. One doesnt forget a good friend though. 1:40 pm, Victor GentileApril 4, 2013 He joined Link 80 at age 16 and played with them for three years, touring extensively. He was like Prince Charming and he remained our Prince Charming. ), musical instruments, the kids friends, a dozen backpacks full of homework, and John never batted an eye, or complained about the noise or chaos. Sorry, your blog cannot share posts by email. He was extremely elegant, known for his impeccable style and limitless charm, he added glamour and sophistication to the San Francisco social scene for his entire life. I very much related to your book about your son Nick. What a joy for me to read that there are still people like you who are so evolved who can express these wonderful thoughts. John Traina passed away in St. Louis, Missouri. John was a man of a thousand interests, always fascinated by a variety of topics. Much love to you and your family. As the years went on I used old photos of the Traina family from Dads albums, enlarged and framed, as an excuse to visit John. Nicholas John Steel "Nick" Traina Birth 1 May 1978 San Francisco, San Francisco County, California, USA Death 20 Sep 1997 (aged 19) Pleasant Hill, Contra Costa County, California, USA Burial Cypress Lawn Memorial Park Colma, San Mateo County, California, USA Show Map Plot One of his best friends, Charlie Crocker, said simply, "He was a dear friend of 60 years' standing who will be much missed.". "John was so handsome, so charming, so nice. God bless all of you. From left Todd Traina, Katie Traina, Dede Wilsey, John Traina, Alexis Swanson, and Trevor Traina, attend the San Francisco Opera Gala Friday evening, September 11, 2009. Jos Ropero, Ms Steel sent a comment in Spanish on the death of John but I see quee google translated something wrong my comment, because I do not know English, but if something is not understood or grounds for confusion, sorry, just wanted to give my condolences and say that John was very good father and husband for their qualities. Sophia Loren with John Traina at Bistro Don Giovanni in July 2004, when Sophias son Carlo Ponti was in Napa to conduct the Russian National Orchestra. 9:03 am, Suzie OrrillJuly 9, 2013 document.getElementById( "ak_js_1" ).setAttribute( "value", ( new Date() ).getTime() ); I am so sorry for the loss of yet another person that you loved Danielle. We will remember him forever. Beloved father and grandfather, notable society figure, entrepreneur, civic leader and San Francisco legend, John Traina attended Grant School, Lowell High School, graduated from Stanford University '53, and served in the U.S. Army in the Pacific. It was my pleasure to have this time with him. 8:14 am, jose roperoMarch 4, 2011 He led a good life. The thing I loved best about John is he was a straight shooter and good-natured - you have to be, with that many children. Leave a sympathy message to the family in the guestbook on this memorial page of Joseph John Traina Sr. to show support. Thank you for sharing both your sadness and joy. But the girls are heartbroken that their father will never walk them down the aisle. I visited his office at 650 California St. S.F.,when his had a beautiful walnut paneled office with American President Lines. The death of Nicholas Traina, who until recently sang with a Berkeley punk-rock group called Link 80, was reported by Howard Rubenstein, the novelist's New York publicist. I am sorry for the loss of a very special person in your life and children. . He was movie star handsome when I met him, and until his very last day. This memorial website was created in memory of John Traina, 87, born on September 26, 1909 and passed away on February 2, 1997. Don Cowan, thoroughly enjoyed the times he traveled with John, or ran into him and Danielle on Union Street where we lived. What an example for us all to follow, on and off the field. They got divorced in 1978, but their relationship inspired Steele to write Now & Forever and Passions Promise. You and I were expecting a baby in 1983 and we spoke once as you were looking fir a Nanny. [1] Traina died by suicide by overdosing on lithium at the age of 19. I wish I could meet you some day because you have so much warmth and all I can The morning that he died, he had breakfast with some of the children, and dressed carefully for a visit to the hospital to make sure that he was alright. He must have been an extra ordinary man and the way you described him 7:00 pm, Carrie (Rosenfeld) van de VenJanuary 1, 2014 She married John Traina in 1981 for the 4th time, with whom she has 5 children: Samantha, Victoria, Vanessa, Maxx and Zara. John Traina, in 1985 . In 1953, I was waiting for the Sacramento Street bus on the corner of Sacramento and Buchanan. it impossible to put one of your books down for too long without taking a little What 78 year old man do you know who looks like that? But in spite of that, we remained good friends, and very close because of the children, and probably also just because we liked each other. I have always enjoyed Danielle Steel books ,but after reading this article.I respect and admire her! I just completed reading His Bright Light about your son Nicky. I will say many prayers for you. And John was truly the handsomest man I have ever known, and was until the day he died, and a kind one. Tras su separacin, quedaron y se enamoraron rpidamente, como ella misma ha contado: almorzaron en Ao Nuevo de 1981, l le propuso matrimonio en San Valentn y se casaron en [], [] friends with Steele. What a beautiful tribute to your former husband, but more importantly, a beautiful tribute to a fine human being. I worked for John in the late 70s at Prudential-Grace and Delta Steamship Lines. What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative? xxoo, Lo siento seora Steel, admiraba en lo poco que haba ledo sobre el en su libro sobre Nick, su paciencia su cooperacin con usted, el amor hace que todas las cosas sean posibles. As of 2021, she has written 190 books, including over 140 novels.. Based in California for most of her career, Steel has produced several . (John 5:28,29) And everyone loved everyone. Keeping his memory alive will not only comfort you, but will keep him with you for many years to come. It's surprising how much a musical selection can affect mourning. He was 79. Traina engaged in numerous pursuits, with vineyards in the Napa Valley, was the author of two books ("Extraordinary Jewels" and "The Faberg Case"), was a world traveler and famous collector of important objects. 6:37 am, Shawn DeCosteAugust 6, 2017 Its so hard to lose a child, I know what you went through losing your son. What a beautiful love story that you have shared. There is always enough love to go around, but it is rare to find a family who embraces that love with the exes etc. A handsome, elegant man, impeccably groomed, with a radiant smile.